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Daily things 5️⃣ Five Things Tuesday

1. I never thought I was a perfectionist until it was pointed out to me.
2. I hate being wrong, or even looking wrong. I think I need to work on that.
3. I am not generally someone who underachieves, but I always put that on the fact that my parents were really strict.
4. I am not certain how you instill work ethic in your kids, especially if you are solidly middle class, and your parents are highly educated, successful, etc.
5. I worry about things I cannot control. I think I need to work on that.
 
1. T minus 23 hours....
2. I plan to eat fried chicken and Chicago style pizza this week if it kills me
3. There's an undoubtedly logical reason for it, but part of me questions if engineer types adopt conventions like counting down with the phrase "T minus..." to feel cool.
4. Apples appear to be already ripe on the trees
5. maybe I'll work out at the gym extra this week. Or maybe not.
 
1. Leaving for a conference later this afternoon & gone rest of the week
2. The Finance Department makes things extra complicated
3. Our dog loves it when I grill hot dogs because he knows he gets one
4. Last year Tuesday was the only night we didn't have anything scheduled, this year it's Monday
5. Signs, signs everywhere a sign - municipal elections this November and the signs are blooming
 
1. Rode My Fair City's public transit for the first time since high school.
2. Attempting to reduce household expenses by utilizing public transit.
3. Phase 2A of my next major life event began today.
4. I feel guilty eating Subway because of what the previous spokesperson is accused/guilty of.
5. NOLA in October! WOOT WOOT!! <:D<:D:l::8::beers::awesome:
 
1) Wife is on call tonight. She got called in over the weekend. Should be a nice paycheck for her.
2) I am going to cook crab cakes for lunch. There are just some things that are better here than they were in the midwest. Saltwater Seafood is one of them.
3) I am loading up on a vitamin process, cutting back on some foods, and trying to get rid of a sinus infection before I need to travel to WI next month.
4) American Ninja Warrior looks cool. Some of these contestants have an addiction to it.
5) I wonder how much of ones position in life is related to habit.
 
1. I accomplished a lot today. A good busy day.
2. Unfortunately that includes heartburn. I got it bad today.
3. I didn't eat anything odd. I just need to start eating healthier again I guess.
4. Eating right is really difficult, when I love food so much.
5. Red markers are fun.
 
1. The family will get back around midnight tonight
2. I can tell I had too much fun while they were gone.
3. But it will be nice to return to normality again.
4. Supremacy 1914 is a great strategy game.
5. There may be no business like show business, but by that same token, there's no business like air traffic control either, and you don't hear songs being written about them, do you?
 
1) It was nice to see my sister this weekend. I think she had a hard time saying goodbye last night as we were at the airport. But she will be back between Christmas and New Years.
2) Brunch places are stupid expensive. We will not be making that mistake again. Next time, IHOP or Waffle House.
3) Miniskis starts his second quarter of 1 grade today. Year round schools are strange things, but I think it is good for him.
4) The waves and undertow at the beach was crazy this weekend. It was hard to stand in anything more than knee deep water while holding the little kids.
5) The Den leader for my son's cub scout troop is still tying to get a meeting together. I think back and my parents had much simpler schedules than the wife and I have today.
 
Maister said:
5. There may be no business like show business, but by that same token, there's no business like air traffic control either, and you don't hear songs being written about them, do you?
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"Learning To Fly" by Pink Floyd includes a conversation with a pilot and the tower. I would assume the tower is air traffic control.
 
1) Two nights of crappy sleep and I'm dragging today. I thought I would sleep well last night after hiking for a portion of the holiday.
2) Discovered a couple of nice wineries while out and about yesterday, in an area we weren't expecting them.
3) The low tire pressure light came on this morning on my way to work. Guess what I'll be looking at during lunchtime?
4) Enjoyed the extra long weekend, but still was ready to come into work today.
5) Ready for cooler temps! Nothing like flirting with triple digits to cut your hiking time short.
 
1. A new employee started today which I think is going to be a great asset to the community (and take some things off my platter)
2. Okay Finance, you want me to fill out the travel report, but the software won't let me open the form...
3. My feet are not yelling at me today after walking a couple marathons around the big city
4. The next couple weeks are going to be interesting
5. And now for my next assignment, put together a cost estimate for parking lot enhancements for 3 lots
 
  • Watching Serena vs Venus great stuff!
  • Trump is in crowd, pumping flesh
  • cat left a mouse by my bed last night
  • cricket in the kitcehn too
  • found water hemlock in my shoreline, that stuff is deadly!
 
1. The beatings will continue until moral improves...how many "hurry up and get it done projects" can one take.
2. I used the analogy today "we can't create matter" in reference to one of those projects
3. Bringing my cards against urbanity set to the state conference in a couple of weeks...hello beer, mountains and no real work...PM if you are heading to Steamboat too!
4. Got some neat art prints for my office this weekend, did you know that Georgia O'Keeffe painted some cityscapes?
5. Went to ikea last night, 100 dollars later and we did not walk out with what we intended to buy.
 
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1 - spent 5 days visiting Mom before she moves to California.
2 - with my brother 's and sister's help we cleaned out he garage for the last time before - see # 1 above.
3 - helped Mom pack 10 + boxes to be shipped to California - see # 1 above.
4 - got in the ocean 2 of the 5 days I was there - 1 day there was red flag warnings - - rip tide & strong currents.
5 - Is it wrong to be emotional that Mom is selling the beach house after 45 years ?
 
1. If I had a nickel for every time someone told me "you are so cool" I could make change for a quarter!
2. Identity politics. Interesting.
3. I wouldn't want to be king of anywhere, but maybe being a jack would be alright
4. Why am I paying for a gym membership we hardly ever use anymore?
5. Mondrian is one of my favorite painters.
 
1. Our MiLB Team won game 1 of the SAL Championship Series last night 7-0. Being a Monday night it was a light crowd.
2. Good news / bad news from doctor yesterday - weight is down but blood pressure is up
3. Been trying to print a parking pass for a workshop, but IT has the site blocked for some reason - really
4. Time to buy a new pair of "work" shoes
5. Easements documents are so boring to read - especially first thing in the morning
 
1) verbal faux-pas at staff meeting today - my face was red for most of the meeting :-$
2) new director changes means staff doesn't have to go to City Council meetings, but I'm not sure I agree.
3) breakfast tacos!
4) why do some ideas sound better before implementation, and others are better after implementation?
5) debating joining a gym - to force myself to have more incentive ($$$) to get out there and get moving. But hubby - who already belongs - thinks it's a bad idea/waste of money. Maybe wait until the weather forces me inside??
 
1. I wish I could hear what goes on in the Tuesday AM closed door meeting, because I don't think it's making a difference in what it's supposed to improve.
2. My can of TAB has a mystery, exotic flavor in it.
3. I wish I could really be the Spelling Police.
4. My coworker wears headphones and sings loudly from his desk. I'll miss that if he retires.
5. Another coworker left at noon on his bicycle to ride to DC. The GAP trail is behind our office. Lucky guy.
 
1. Nostalgic for an orange smoothie from Smoothie King after a hot and sweaty soccer game in Lafreniere Park.
2. Nostalgic for some Indian food from Lau Pa Sat.
3. Could us an extra $30,000 (for the good of all) to get some projects done around the house.
4. Anyone have a uterus I could borrow? I would like another child.
5. Trying to figure out a buget-friendly & child-friendly place to spend a few nights to celebrate our 5-yr anniversary.
 
1) It has been a very busy but productive day.
2) First cub scout meeting is tonight. Miniskis is super excited.
3) Not sure what I want to do for lunch today.
4) There was about 30 minutes this morning that every time I hung up the phone, it would ring within 5 seconds.
5) A friend of mine from HS and I discussed the importance of keeping score in our personal and professional lives. Not how we are doing against others, but how we are doing against our selves. How do we know if we are getting better if we don't keep track of how we are now?
 
1. I'd like to direct a low-budget B movie remake of The Godfather, The Sting, and Citizen Kane just to p*ss off all the movie critics
2. Wax fruit: I don't have any in my house
3. Real fruit: apart from a bag of apples I don't have that in my house either
4. You don't hear people use the phrase "big box" much any more do you?
5. I wish Santa Claus were real. I really do.
 
1. I ate BBQ from 2 different places both days this weekend. This is not a complaint. Yum.
2. I am wearing the :blueshirt: today, minus the tie
3. Fall temperatures have arrived here and is welcomed
4. I have homemade oatmeal raisin cookies for a snack today
5. Maister, Santa Claus is real. I hope you don't get coal in your stocking.
 
1) Trying to get out of this rut. Just can't figure out the reason for being in the rut, so it's hard to get out/stop/change.
2) Really want a dog or two. :w::w:
3) Wish the weather would start turning to Autumn. It's supposed to be 95 here today - that's too hot for late Sept!
4) Still believe that I made the right decision to take this job, but wish Hubby was content with our relocation.
5) Made margaritas last night - on the rocks. Turned out OK, but I've done better.
 
1. Had to turn the heat on last night. Brrr.
2. Too early to turn on the heat.
3. Kitties were happy about the heat situation.:fire::m::brofist:
4. I have a difficult time saying no.
5. I am a pleaser.
 
1) I went to bed at 8 and got up at 6:30... and I am still tired. Might be time to pay the doctor a visit... on and find a doctor to visit.
2) My youngest turns 2 next week... and My wife and I have our 8 year anniversary next week too.
3) My truck seat was not in it's usual position when I went to lunch. I wonder if I bumped the reset button or something.
4) A very high pressure sales person from a TV cable company called me this morning. He actually told me that it was foolish not to have cable TV. I asked him how big his home library was to which he responded, what does that have to do with cable. I thanked him for his time and hung up the phone.
5) Since we are talking art, authentic Tomas Kincade paintings have a trace (but measurable) amount of blood in the paint.
 
1. My wine collection keeps getting too big. I need to drink more wine.
2. I find myself a bad collector of anything, because I am unable to move past the purchase. I won't use the goods.
3. My mother-in-law would buy you an expensive item and want you to use it. I would hide it away.
4. In this one case, I need to learn something from my mother-in-law.
5. Onyx is a cool word.
 
1. Some mornings, I wake up with a song stuck in my head, and it seems to be a song, really more like a jingle, that I composed in my sleep.
2. I don't remember the songs beyond lunchtime.
3. It might be time for my oldest son to get his own place.
4. My daughter seems to pick parasitic friends.
5. I've had two incredibly busy days.
 
1. Tuesday might be too early in the week normally for a week to take shape, but this week finds Tuesday controlling the tenor of the remainder of the work week.
2. My son has entire drawers filled with crappy plastic junk toys that he never plays with.
3. I could live the rest of my life in perfect contentment if I never had to review another sign permit again
4. It's safe to say popsicle season is all over with for the year.
5. The temperatures are consistently going down, the leaves are just starting to change, and the cider mills are advertising their wares. Fall has already pulled into the driveway and has rung the doorbell. Shall we answer it?
 
1) My wife and I have our anniversary today. We plan to go out to dinner on Saturday (without kids) to celebrate. I bought her a pearl necklaces with matching bracelet and earrings since it is elegant to wear with a formal dress but casual enough to wear with jeans and a nice shirt, and classic enough to wear to church.
2) I shaved my beard over the weekend. It is weird not having it.
3) Last night, I ran on a treadmill while watching the Packers go 3-0. I think the distraction of the game was a benefit because I was able to run further at a faster pace than ever before without getting tired.
4) I found a house plan that I really like and construction price is within my target range... now I need to find a vacant lot in an area of the town that I want to live. The lot might cost more than the house.
5) We have had 5 days of clouds and rain. It it wasn't for the warmth, I would say I was back in MI.
 
1) Staff meeting this morning ran over. Not a usual occurence, but today we discovered an issue just in conversation and had to hash it out.
2) I realized during said staff meeting that my active case items are plat-heavy. My coworker is zoning-heavy. We may have to reassign some things . . .
3) I wanted to see a movie this week, by myself, but the movie I want to see is out of the theaters. I knew I was at the end of the movie's life cycle, but I had really hoped to squeeze it in.
4) Debating taking a scenic drive without the hubby this weekend. He's on call, so has limited range, but I want to explore a bit. It may be a last-minute decision.
5) Up to Season 4 of How I Met Your Mother on Netflix. I'm enjoying it a lot, and I wonder what I was doing when it started, and why I missed it.
 
1. Jealous that I don't have a grappling hook in my tree
2. Finally looked up what type of tree was in the back yard. Pecan, like I thought
3. My assistant is mad about yesterday's decision. Hate to see bad people get away with stuff.
4. Still have to talk to the guy about his home business.
5. Maybe I'll leave early after that.
 
1. I own a grappling hook but It would be awesome if I found one in a tree in my yard.
2. I had to explain why a pre-construction meeting had to occur before construction.
3. I know we need rain but 5 days without seeing the sun isn't enjoyable.
4. If it keeps raining, I'll need to breakout the flannel and start a grunge band.
5. Maybe I need to build an ark... where can I get some gopher wood?
 
1. We call them "pre-completion" meetings. :not:
2. I've lived on a main road since 1986.
3. That's about to change.
4. Someone thanked me for allowing him to continue work while they "addressed" violations.
5. Wait until he gets his mail tomorrow.
 
1. Been experiencing more anxiety than usual lately
2. Flags look cool. The idea behind flags, though, is sometimes rather less than cool
3. Sherlock Holmes is my favourite fictional character
4. Catholicism gets things right sometimes. Take the idea of saints. We all need heroes, right?
5. We don't have a dog but that may change in the not too distant future
 
1) Last full day in the office this week. APATX starts tomorrow, and I'll be there - at least by tomorrow evening.
2) Why is it I'm the only person in the group from my city who plans on attending sessions? Two people are going specifically for the AICP training, but otherwise the whole conference seems to be viewed as a seen and be seen opportunity. I guess that's the advantage of NOT being AICP and NOT needing credits.
3) Going to see The Martian this weekend!
4) I really like the Bonza app - more than Words with Friends.
5) Plans still moving forward for our office move. We were discussing cubes yesterday.
 
1. I saw Christmas decorations on a house - I thought of hinky and that's just wrong.
2. The Girl lost her iPad privileges last Sunday - she almost lost them again last night
3. Mom comes into town Wednesday for a short stay
4. Travel opportunities for next summer are coming into play
5. We had a lot of wind this week & the leaves are starting to fall. I'm not looking forward to raking
 
1) Michigan Won, Packers Won, I get to see the Wings on Saturday. Shame my FF team sucks.
2) After 12 days of rain, I stopped building the ark and went on a tour of two vacant historic buildings today. One of them does not appear to have been touched since the 30's and only did marginal electrical installation, as in 4 outlets in the entire house. The walls of the house were just wood planks, and it looked like it was a viable farm at one point.
3) Miniskis can now tie his own shoes. He was so opposed to it for so long. I think the threat of not letting him wear shoes was enough (ok, I didn't do that... but pondered it)
4) I don't want to say that I have a prolific sinus issue, but the idea of grabbing a dremel tool and a drill bit seems more and more appealing.
5) One does not truly know themselves until they have climbed through a pit of watery mud with barbed wire holding them down.
 
1. I would go to an Ed Sheeran concert. Yep I said it.
2. Lisa Loeb only wants to hear what she wants to.
3. I have another week with only a couple meetings. I hope to accomplish all my hopes and dreams.
4. Banks are not friendly to people. They really should be though.
5. I have really thick skin. I should be more emotional sometimes.
 
  • The yachting industry looks fun on Below Deck binge watching all aboard!
  • How do you pronounce trebuchet?
  • Tree bucket? still good beer thanks BV!
  • For sale: Eastlake spooncarved dresser with mirror. Original condition make offer
  • cookies going in the oven on 321..


 
1. I'm going to be an uncle, I actually thought it would be sooner.
2. Weather took a turn for the better. Clouds lifted late morning/early afternoon here.
3. I need to do some serious cleaning here for my upcoming houseguest.
4. I can't get the WIfi on my computer to work, works fine plugged in.
5. I should visit my garden tomorrow. It's a community garden plot. I'm guessing I should just harvest my green tomatoes and be done. Well those and the beets. I think I planted way too much in too small of a space. One of my most successful plants was beans, even though I didn't actually plant those.
 
1. Anyone know where I can get a good quality steak to grill for not a lot of money?
2. Thank god for coffee
3. It's funny how the zoning board meetings I worry about the most frequently go without a hitch and the ones I expect to be smooth sailing often run into rocky shoals
4. I would like to visit Scandinavia but cannot afford to. Somehow life will go on, though.
5. Perhaps you were expecting some exciting insectivore action, but please be advised that apart from watching them close, Venus flytrap plants are, in fact, quite dull to watch.
 
1) Staff meeting canceled this morning. Too bad, because I didn't eat breakfast 'cause I was expecting to eat at the staff meeting!!
2) Have a meeting after lunch re: reducing parking to save trees. Whee.
3) Really want something sugary, like a donut, but can't get that right now.
4) I slacked off this weekend and didn't take a walk on Sunday. I can't expect to lose weight if I don't get moving!
5) Personal life is boring right now - is it me or is it a sign?
 
1. Llama Llama Dumpster Drama.
2. Dumpsters have been the theme of the day.
3. Quote of the day thus far is "It's near impossible to get a dead guy to do anything."
4. Cheap land and buildings are cheap for a reason.
5. I still haven't found the cheeseburger that I am looking for.

Maister said:
1. Anyone know where I can get a good quality steak to grill for not a lot of money?
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Chuck Eyes are my go to low cost steak. It's similar to a rib eye in flavor and tenderness but is fattier in general. Often I select a lesser quality/lesser know cut at a better grade (USDA prime) over high end cut at a lessor grade. A lot of grocery stores around here sell beef with USDA grade of choice or select; and one sells standard. Go prime or choice; life's too short to eat low quality beef.
 
1. Nice to hear RJ & ZG
2. Somebody upstairs got the proverbial cart before the horse
3. Part of me wants to go to the council candidate election debate - Part of me knows I hear most of the same stuff at council meetings
4. APA just sent me a 'welcome to the profession & please join us' letter - guys I've been a member for 3 decades, I'm AICP & do the CM stuff too:r::not:
5. I hate making cold calls
 
  • spent the weekend in marquette MI, gorgeous weather exquisite fall colors
  • Stayed in an AirBnB , PITA to get confirmed imo - not active FB user therefore i may not exist?
  • An entire apartment for the price of a hotel room!
  • Location was perfect, walk to everything
  • hiked sugarloaf on Sunday, too many hyper kids and dogs made me feel pushy at the top of the rock
 
1) I am sick of this health issue crap. My doctor has me taking my blood pressure twice a day. I am also on an antibiotic twice a day and it makes me feel like crap. My sinus infection is causing ringing in my ears, and the pressure is causing my vision to blur in one eye on occasion. I see an ENT this week and hopefully will get answers on how to treat the problem and not just mask the symptoms.
2) Wife has her interview at one of the other hospitals in the area tomorrow. I am confident they will give her the job, but it is going to cause some issues elsewhere, like we will have to move out of our current apt because it is not within 30 min drive for when she is on call, and her existing employer paid a sum of money for moving expenses. When she is offered the job, she is going to counter their offer with something that will cover these moving expenses.
3) Recently I have been asking myself a what the purpose of particular tasks, events, or processes are in my personal life. I am doing this mostly to boil things down to what is important in my life and what is just fluff or entertainment. Not that entertainment for the sake of entertainment is bad, but is it preventing something better from happening. I have come to the realization that I need to really reexamine what my goals are in life for not only me, but also my family.
4) Next week is going to be a busy week. I have NCAPA conferences 3 days a week, and I am going to TN for the weekend to meet up with some friends at a leadership development event. Normally I would be super excited about it, but with the recent health issues, I am not looking forward to it as much.
5) Some weather guy commented that parts of the NE might get their first sign of snow over the weekend. I think I am going to enjoy this winter not having snow here, but being able to drive to the mountains to ski when I want to.
 
1. I'm meeting with my new landlord this evening.
2. My favorite blouse is falling apart. Thank God for sweaters.
3. It's amazing how obstinate a really intelligent guy is.
4. I wish I had added a day to my long weekend.
5. My friends from my stay-at-home former life and I get together on civic holidays.
 
1. I would like to have a week to do nothing.
2. Just workout, veg out, and eat.
3. Then afterwards I get to go back to my life.
4. I think I would really miss my life though.
5. Which I would assume is why people don't just run away. That would be weird.
 
1. Know what I'd like more than a week's vacation? TWO weeks! I haven't taken off from a job for two full consecutive weeks since the 1990's. True.
2. I'm not saying that like it's some kinda badge of honor, but rather, a measure of insecurity
3. Toll house cookies. Mmmmmm
4. Spatz bread is the best toasting bread ever invented
5. I would just love to experience a drama-free period for 30 days. Would I find myself creating my own drama in its absence, I wonder?
 
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