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Re: Re: Favorite Movie?
Oh good I thought someone might bring this up....
Alyssa wasn't a lesbian. Never was. Check out the scene in the middle of the film when she answers Holden's question "Why me?":
"Until I remembered why I opened the door to women in the first place: to not limit the likelihood of finding that one person who'd complement me so completely. So here we are. I was thorough when I looked for you. And I feel justified lying in your arms, 'cause I got here on my own terms, and I have no question there was some place I didn't look. And for me that makes all the difference. "
I found it emotional honest because it was real. It was actually the story of Kevin and Joey Lauren Adams relationship, slightly skewed. It was a painful movie for them to make together. I felt it really came from Kevin's gut, it was something very personal he had to say and he used his art to say it. No, it not the deepest movie ever made, but scratch the surface and you'll find there is quite a bit more than you would expect.
Beaner said:
Not to be overly contentious here, but I have a lesbian friend who says the plot of Chasing Amy (straight guy falls in love with a lesbian and converts her to the team of heteros) is bogus. Certainly she isn't speaking for all lesbians, but she dislikes the movie because it minimizes and almost illegitimizes lesbianism as our female protagonist (antagonist?) navigates through a hetero world that apparently admonishes, yet lavisciously drools at alternative female sexual orientations.
Emotionally honest? I don't know. Though I can probably think of a couple of recent movies that are pretty damn good and a whole lot more serious, emotionally speaking... English Patient, Monster's Ball, In the Bedroom, and Iris. Certainly not funny movies by any means, but if you are looking for emotional satisfaction, then go see those. In my opinion, Iris is the most gut-wrenching, especially if you ever seen a parent or older loved-one go through the degeneration that the Judi Dench lead character went through.
Chasing Amy as a great frat boy movie? Sure - young hottie talks trash and gets it on with both girls and boys! WOW! Hand me another brewskie!
Oh good I thought someone might bring this up....
Alyssa wasn't a lesbian. Never was. Check out the scene in the middle of the film when she answers Holden's question "Why me?":
"Until I remembered why I opened the door to women in the first place: to not limit the likelihood of finding that one person who'd complement me so completely. So here we are. I was thorough when I looked for you. And I feel justified lying in your arms, 'cause I got here on my own terms, and I have no question there was some place I didn't look. And for me that makes all the difference. "
I found it emotional honest because it was real. It was actually the story of Kevin and Joey Lauren Adams relationship, slightly skewed. It was a painful movie for them to make together. I felt it really came from Kevin's gut, it was something very personal he had to say and he used his art to say it. No, it not the deepest movie ever made, but scratch the surface and you'll find there is quite a bit more than you would expect.